1:44 minutes

Melanie, Skyping in from Canada, says first dates make her nervous because she\'s afraid she\'ll blow it with someone who could be \'the one.\' Watch as dating experts Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola explain how to be yourself on a first date. Plus, find out why many women don\'t realize how much power they have on a date.

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